anniversaries, tuesdays, wednesdays, mother's day, divorces, first dates, second dates, thirthieth dates, revenge dates, instead of grocery shopping, for fun, laziness, the experience, for the love of poached eggs, for the love of oysters, brunch, long lunches at work, with friends, with mates, business lunches, before a movie, skip the movie, go straight home, after dinner, because you fell in love over food, and repeat.